Soulmate
Saturday, January 08, 2005
4:14 PM
When you're feeling low and the sky starts to rain... you feel as if the heaven is crying for you...
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I still remember the talk I had with my buddy, Jun the other day. She asked me if the soul mate of our life should always be our another half. For her case, her soul mate is a friend instead of her boyfriend. I beg to differ at that point of time but I shall take back my words for now.
I believe every girl wants their boyfriend to be theirs everything. Life partner, best friend, "parent", teacher, soul mate, etc etc...
But is it that easy for him to take so many roles at one time?
I used to think it's wonderful to have someone like that. And I thought all boyfriends are like that... So "superman". But it's isn't easy for the both of us.
There is always something lacking in each other in a relationship. That lacking of something then became nothing when both couldn't find an answer to it. Many couples chose to ignore it. Some chose to work things our again and again. And some eventually chose to give up. I finally understand why 2 loving couple will still end up heartbroken at the end of the day.
It's either god is trying to give all couple a test or is it just a warning signal. I don't know.
Do people always change? Is time a factor? Is personality clash another? Or does the famous "new-one-come-old-one-go" always exist?
Perhaps I have been thinking too much. I finally realise how tired I am now just by looking at my face... and placing my hand on my heart.