3 more days!
Thursday, March 02, 2006
8:43 PM
This Sunday is gonna be our 2nd year anniversary... How time flies! :) I am so so looking forward to it!
Today I went down to Dad's office because they have applied for broadband and needed advice on the network structure. I decided to go off to town at 12pm to get the 3rd present for baby. Since I have passed him that present, I can enclose what I bought today. It's a Crumpler shoulder pad. It can be attached to his bag or the skates sling as shoulder support. Hope he likes it! There are another 2 presents that can only be passed to him on Sunday. Heh heh...
Met up with baby at 2.30pm near his place and off to ECP for blading and cycling... Since I don't want to waste baby's time on teaching me, I rather cycle. :P
We took a short break at the Bedok jetty and snap some photos. Very weird hor, almost everytime i go ECP will sure stop at Bedok jetty to take photo. Heh...
We passed by this place... erm... I don't really know what they call it. I assumed it's call the Cable Ski Park. This whole thing is damn cool okie. If only I have the guts to try! Oh well... maybe when I can learn to swim WELL. -_-
After 2 hours of blading and cycling, we went to have a drink at Mac and then a scroll at the beach. Been a long time since we have done that. Sweet!
While walking, we discovered a body...
Of a crab. 1st it was the body of a crab.
Then the shell...
1st crawl...
And the 2nd.
All scattered at different places. How cruel! :|
We had great day today. Seriously, everyday is a great day when you're with your loved ones. :) Thanks baby!
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Just feel like talking about this.
Personally, I am someone who doesn't like to make enemy. I don't usually hate someone unless that person offends me without me doing it first. I mean, hating someone is simply a waste of time and energy.
Almost everytime when I am on the road, I met with rude drivers. The worse cases are those who feels that letting someone in need to cut lane infront of them will lose a slice of their meat on their body. I mean I can understand that if the driver didn't signal at all when he tries to cut lane, he is being rude and if you don't want to give way, it's okie. (Not really okie la but since the driver who wants to cut lane is so rude, you be rude also lor).
But when the driver nicely on the signal, hand stretch out of the window, trying to show that he really need to cut your lane, does it hurt to give way? I swear that most of the time I obey the "courteous driver" rules and only 20% of the cars are willing to give way. Don't just talk about me. Even when I took a cab, I see difficulties in them trying to cut lanes. All these rude drivers... (no offences la but based on majority) are elderly drivers. And of course some are youngsters trying to give attitude la. I dare to say I ALWAYS give way to those who needs to cut into my lane. Please leh... It doesn't kill to be nice on the road lor. And it's SO NOT COOL to be rude on the road!
Fine. Next.
Cab snatcher! They are the worse public transport pest in the world. It's either I am transparent or too nice, although I am always the 1st one on the road side to flag a cab, I am always the last one to get it. People will just walk infront of me and start flagging for one. OMG I always told myself. If you're an Ah Pek or Ah Mah, FINE, I let you go 1st. But if you're not, unless you're rushing somewhere SO URGENTLY, do have the courtosy to let those in "queue" 1st to take the cab. 1st come 1st serve what...
Just like today. I tried to flag a cab because I am really short of time. But when a cab is nearing me, there are 3 elderly cut my "queue" and flag for the cab. Fine I say since they won't feel good waiting for one for too long. So I let them be.
Then there is this lady who walks slowly infront of me and flag for a cab. I stared hard at her and she still got the guts to give me that irritating look. Darn! People these days are getting very rude. I can't stand it! This is not the 1st time. Ahhhhhh!
Unwelcome blog visitors? No body dislikes people visiting their blog. I mean, in the internet world, nothing is call privacy. If you want to have privacy, the last place should be the internet.
But if you're someone who simply have too much time on hand and feel that intruding someone's life and wreck it will make you feel better, there must be something wrong in your mind.
Unless that person snatch your boyfriend/girlfriend, kill someone close to you, hurt you or owe you money, there is not reason why you should leave nasty comment in that person's blog and feel that he or she deserves it. Everyone deserves peace and personal space. If you feel that you deserve to be treated nicely, you should learnt to be nice at the 1st place.
Alot of things may lead to misunderstanding and unhappiness in this blogging society. Most of these factors are jealousy and disagreement of entries content. But why don't you think about it... Is it of your business at the 1st place? If someone is popular, by flaming and insulting that person, will it make that person unpopular and you being popular instead? No mah... why waste time on doing all these bo liao stuff.
I encountered this problem in the past and till date I have no idea why my blog will will invite unwelcome guest. I love visitors to my site and really appreciate the concern showered but if you're here to wreck my life, I am sorry, you will fail because you'll never be able to overrule my life.
If you don't like a certain site, just quit visiting them. It won't hurt to not hurt somebody else.
Last but not least... the most popular copycats.
I don't know if I should laugh or cry when I meet with such people. Why do anyone wants to copy from one another. I mean it's okie to have a few similar clothing... or accessories but if you're talking about practically 80-90% similarity, it's like another you walking out of the mirror.
Not just about me, I have seen friends having "admirers" who likes to buy everything they own, having the same hairstyle, trying very hard to lead the same lifestyle, and the worse, copying blog entries. Don't you have a life of your own?
I can't imagine anyone doing this. WHY must anyone copy blog entries? If you can't write, don't blog! Blogging may be a trend but that doesn't mean you should copy to follow the trend. It's not cool. So not cool.
Even by trying to do all these, it won't turn you into that person whom you're trying very hard to follow. Don't try too hard. Happiness can never be shared thru copying.
Really, if everyone takes this seriously, everyday there will be court case regarding copyright issue. But this is common sense what. And it's so easy to trace who is original and who is not.
The world is really changing.
But of course, my friends are definitely not anyone falling into any of the above category. If the hateful"s" can stop being to hateful, the world will be a better place.
Want to be treated nice? Be nice.
I am so lor soh. Good night! :)
(ps. no offense ah... everyone have the right to hate a certain category of people ma.)