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What do we really want...
Tuesday, October 17, 2006 5:27 PM Girls to be exact. What are girls really looking for in a boyfriend? I have alot of girlfriends coming to me telling me how they wish their boyfriend should be. No deny I am guilty for it too. Then again, I have known of guy friends doing that too. So it's a pretty common sight. Few days back, I heard from a friend that her friend's husband killed himself because of some relationship problem. Apparently, this girl wants to go back to her ex-boyfriend and the husband couldn't accept it and ends his life for her. It's rather weird that these days, the percentage of men chose to end their lives over the percentage of women are relatively higher when they meet with problems that they think can never be solved. But by ending your life, is definitely not the right choice to act... not only it won’t solve your problems, but you're bringing the problems into your grave. Unsolved. Lotsa misunderstanding. Lotsa blame pushing. Subconsciously, I envy that girl because she had someone who loves her this much to give up his life for. But of course, I don't need anyone to kill himself just to prove that he loves me. Love is so simple. If you do really love someone, it's written all over your face. Not literately thou. I do have friends who prefer mcp guys. Perhaps they themselves preferred to be controlled and don’t like to make decisions. There are also girls who like guys who are cold towards them. Perhaps that once in a while sweetness can spice up a relationship and girls like that surge of moment. Surprisingly, only a handful of girls like guys with very tame character. Suits you if you're the type with strong character and wants to rule in a relationship. Of course... there may be some who prefer violent guys... :O Not me for sure. Myself? I prefer someone who has the same character as me. Someone who loves me as much as I love him. After all these years of giving, I conclude myself as the male in a relationship. I love to give. But that doesn't mean I don't love to receive. I love them equally. The patience I had, is running out. I need refill!
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